Question 2340
Lost friend asks...
Hi Goda,

I had a big falling out with a friend of mine not too far back. We'd had issues for a while, and when I confronted her in a calm and level headed way about the times she hurt my feelings, she just shut down and pretty much kicked me out of her life. All I wanted to do was talk out our problems, but she didn't. I accept that we're not friends anymore, but I still feel hurt and I'm bothered that she never tried to see my point of view. Do you have any suggestions for how to let go of how I'm feeling?

Goda says...
What other people think of you is none of your business. You have to accept that she does not value you enough to be friends with you. Not everyone is going to love and adore you in life. Lord knows, I've learned this lesson many many times. Some people are just hell bent on not liking you and there is nothing you can do.

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:.Posted Anonymously on 7/28/2010 at 6:03 PM