Question 2343
misunderstood asks...
This isn't a question, but I saw one you answered a little bit ago.
People who stand out are not all attention-seekers. The ones who need the attention or do it on purpose, not because they like the style they dress in, those are the attention-seekers.

Goda says...
If you read the question the person enjoys the attention and does it partially for the reaction, that is an attention seeker.

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:.Posted Anonymously on 7/29/2010 at 10:08 PM
Question 2342
Gigi asks...
I'm currently stuck in a triangle, what was supposed to be a bit of fun during an on site job became a wild romance, and now I'm playing lover to a guy who's been 6 years with this girl, and waiting and hoping he'll choose me.
But this situation is breaking me apart...
What can I do to stop the pain?

Goda says...
He's not going to choose you, stop being a whore. For fucks sake, don't you have any self respect? Obviously he doesn't want you because he is also with her. You can stop the pain by ending this relationship and fixing your morals.

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:.Posted Anonymously on 7/29/2010 at 6:51 PM
Question 2341
Bedhead asks...
Is it against the law to have an alcoholic drink in your own home under the age of 21? My parents sometimes allow me to have wine or a wine cooler with dinner. I'm 19 years old. Some of my friends told me that this is illegal, but somehow I don't think so. Does it depend on what state?
I mean, I still live with my parents (they conveniently live 5 minutes away from my college) and they're not giving to anyone else, just me. So, even though I'm underage, is it okay for them to let me? I don't want them to get into any kind of trouble.

Goda says...
The law states that the legal age for drinking is 21. There is a single form of parental exception. A parent can serve alcohol to their own child - AND ONLY THEIR OWN CHILD - within their own residence. However, the parents are legally liable under child endangerment laws if their child drinks to the point of inebriation or becomes ill due to the alcohol consumed. This exception was built into the law because several religious ceremonies conducted at home include consumption of wine. However, there is a very big difference between letting your child have a few sips of wine at the Passover Seder and throwing your kids a kegger. Also, you are never permitted to serve alcohol to anyone else's children, even if their parents give their consent. Your teenage child can aso be arrested if he serves alcohol to his friends, even if he or she is younger than 21. Parents in many states have been found guilty of knowingly allowing underage drinking in their home.

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:.Posted Anonymously on 7/29/2010 at 4:39 PM
Question 2340
Lost friend asks...
Hi Goda,

I had a big falling out with a friend of mine not too far back. We'd had issues for a while, and when I confronted her in a calm and level headed way about the times she hurt my feelings, she just shut down and pretty much kicked me out of her life. All I wanted to do was talk out our problems, but she didn't. I accept that we're not friends anymore, but I still feel hurt and I'm bothered that she never tried to see my point of view. Do you have any suggestions for how to let go of how I'm feeling?

Goda says...
What other people think of you is none of your business. You have to accept that she does not value you enough to be friends with you. Not everyone is going to love and adore you in life. Lord knows, I've learned this lesson many many times. Some people are just hell bent on not liking you and there is nothing you can do.

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:.Posted Anonymously on 7/28/2010 at 6:03 PM
Question 2339
She asks...
I feel most confident in myself when I'm challenging the conventional or accepted ways of how I'm supposed to look. I like stepping outside of the box and giving a big fuck you to how females are supposed to present themselves, precisely. I enjoy the stares and double takes I get, I think it's absolutely hilarious and amusing.
Last night my mom asked me if I wanted to look the way I do solely for other people and she called me an attention-seeker. This hurt.
I just want to know what you think. Are people who choose to stand out really just attention-seekers?

Goda says...
Yes. You just admitted that you enjoy the stares and double takes. I think there are better ways of challenging convention.

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:.Posted Anonymously on 7/28/2010 at 2:01 PM
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