Question 2386
trapped asks...
I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now and I love him to death. The only thing is I feel like I'm going to be stuck doing what he wants me to do forever. Next year I go off to college (which happens to be 2 hours from where I live now) and for what I want to do, I'm going to have to stay there for a while. He wants me to live in this tiny town with him... and I just don't want that. I want to be with him but I don't want the same things he wants. I want to travel the world... he doesn't. I want to get tattoos... he said he wouldn't want to touch me if I got one. I never really have a chance to hang out with my friends anymore because I'm always with him. I just feel like I'm not going to be able to do the things I want if I stay with him but I still love him.

What do you think I should do?

Goda says...
Break up with him. Or get a tattoo because obviously he won't want you when you are tattooed. You can love someone and not be with them because they want to lead a life that is going to stifle you. Sometimes you just grow apart and away from each others goals.

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:.Posted Anonymously on 8/26/2010 at 7:20 PM
Question 2385
A asks...
Goda,
I met a boy at a month long camp this summer, and we hit it off the whole time. The last few nights we kissed and hugged and were really intimate, and decided to stay committed when I left. He lives about 7 hours away from me now. When I went home we stayed in constant contact all day and would skype at night into the AM for hours and it was perfect, we hadn't lost our chemistry at all. However, we started skyping less and talking less after i came back from a week at the beach (where we still talked on the phone, but couldn't skype). So its been getting less and less and every time i ask him to skype for the last few weeks he's said he's exhausted getting ready for college and has stuff to do, and he will text me a few times but then suddenly will stop replying. He also took down a video of a song he wrote to me and a picture of us on his profile. I asked him about us drifting apart last night and he said he was just really busy... I asked him how he felt and he didn't really get into it. I'm hurt because i still like him a TON and i feel like he doesn't like me as much anymore. I will see him in two days, however, but only for a night since i'll be traveling and stopping by in the town where he lives. What should i do? Do you think it's worth seeing him? Should I call him and ask him how he feels? Am i being too pushy? Pleat help!
Thanks,
A

Goda says...
Don't stop by, let this one go. You are too busy to stop by. You know how he feels, he has told you. He is slowly distancing himself from you and hoping you will take the hint. Truth hurts, take the hint.

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:.Posted Anonymously on 8/26/2010 at 3:49 PM
Question 2384
confused asks...
So the one thing I wanted more than anything in the world was to make the volleyball team. JV or varsity, I didn't care. But I got beat out for the position I played by my best friend, after I had already got cut last year. The head coach approached me herself and asked if I wanted to be manager, and I immediately said yes.
Then I later realized that it's really, really hard to watch people play in general, much less when I know I wanted it more than them. Did I make a mistake telling Coach I'd do it?

Goda says...
You didn't make a mistake telling the Coach you'd do it, however if you don't want to do it- you can go to your coach and explain. I am sure he or she will understand. I mean you can always food poison the players and be asked to fill in.

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:.Posted Anonymously on 8/26/2010 at 12:26 PM
Question 2383
kitten asks...
Okay so there's a new girl in my group of friends and we all have nicknames for eacherother. Like with my name Allison, Ally, and her name is Aldara but I can't really think of any nicknames. Can you help?

Goda says...
Dara, Lara, Aldi, etc.

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:.Posted Anonymously on 8/24/2010 at 4:08 PM
Question 2382
Army Girlfriend. asks...
Hello. So this is kind of a question there may not be an answer to but I am totally lost. My boyfriend of almost 2 years left for basic training for the army today. I don't know what to do with myself. I'll have school in a couple weeks, but this sitting around by myself is so hard. Also, I have no idea what I'm supposed to do about getting his address because his parent's phone was shut off. Do you know anything about this? like what I should do or who I could call to get his address?

Also, kind of unrelated, I brought his cat home to my house while he's away and she won't let me near her: hissing, scratching, etc...She was so sweet and cuddly at his house, any suggestions for that?

Goda says...
You sort of have to leave the cat alone as she is pissed and resentful and he should be able to email you his address.

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:.Posted Anonymously on 8/23/2010 at 12:40 AM
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